JC's helper: What would Jesus do?

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

What would Jesus do?

We have a man who comes to our Space2B, Drop-in centre and Church who has totally inappropriate ways of relating with people and seems to be getting worse. He will get offended easily if people don't listen to him or don't agree with him and frequently starts yelling. Lately his personal hygiene has been an issue also. His actions ruin the Space2B experience for people. It does not feel a safe place like it is intended to be. We have been tolerant and many people bend over backwards to "be nice" and inclusive. We have a couple in our Church who give an open invitation to people for lunch on a Sunday about once a month. People really appreciate this and the house is quite full. Apparently this last Sunday this man started shouting there and being disruptive. What would Jesus do?

It annoys me that agencies who receive money to look after such people seem to readily ban them if they become disruptive... so they are not looked after. They are left on the street to flounder. Anyway think about us. We are trying to find ways to lovingly care for this man who has mental health issues, but at the same time keep others safe and make our place suitable and welcoming for them. Wish I knew what Jesus would do?

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The Blog's title

I am a Workplace Chaplain to the NZ fireservice.

At the firestation every time one man sees me he yells, "Here comes JC's helper!". I guess I am happy to be called just that... "Jesus' helper". I am a follower of Jesus.
A a quote from Dave Andrews in his book, "Not Religion but Love".
"Being a devotee of Jesus is not a matter of subscribing to a certain set of dogmas, obeying rules and regulations, and getting others to subordinate themselves to them.

The essence of being a devotee of Jesus is to live in sympathy with God as Jesus did; feeling the throb of God's heartbeat, and teaching our hearts to learn to beat in sync with the love that sustains the universe.

It means developing our capacity to sense intuitively what causes love pleasure, and what causes love pain, and doing everything we can to enhance the pleasure, and diminish the pain."

I love this charter.

The Charter for Compassion

The principle of compassion lies at the heart of all religious, ethical and spiritual traditions, calling us always to treat all others as we wish to be treated ourselves. Compassion impels us to work tirelessly to alleviate the suffering of our fellow creatures, to dethrone ourselves from the centre of our world and put another there, and to honour the inviolable sanctity of every single human being, treating everybody, without exception, with absolute justice, equity and respect.

It is also necessary in both public and private life to refrain consistently and empathically from inflicting pain. To act or speak violently out of spite, chauvinism, or self-interest, to impoverish, exploit or deny basic rights to anybody, and to incite hatred by denigrating others—even our enemies—is a denial of our common humanity. We acknowledge that we have failed to live compassionately and that some have even increased the sum of human misery in the name of religion.

We therefore call upon all men and women ~ to restore compassion to the centre of morality and religion ~ to return to the ancient principle that any interpretation of scripture that breeds violence, hatred or disdain is illegitimate ~ to ensure that youth are given accurate and respectful information about other traditions, religions and cultures ~ to encourage a positive appreciation of cultural and religious diversity ~ to cultivate an informed empathy with the suffering of all human beings—even those regarded as enemies.

We urgently need to make compassion a clear, luminous and dynamic force in our polarized world. Rooted in a principled determination to transcend selfishness, compassion can break down political, dogmatic, ideological and religious boundaries. Born of our deep interdependence, compassion is essential to human relationships and to a fulfilled humanity. It is the path to enlightenment, and indispensable to the creation of a just economy and a peaceful global community.